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Adults: Death, Dying, and Grief

This collection of library resources is meant to be a support for those facing mortality and grief. The items in this list span a wide range of topics and tones; let us know if you need help finding the right resources for you. This list also includes a link to Sea to Sky Hospice Society, a great resource for our community.

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  • Through the eyes of his widow, this memoir tells the story of Ron's MAID journey and of its effects on his family.
    Book, 2025Lawrencetown Beach, Nova Scotia : Pottersfield Press, [2025] — 179.7 WEB
  • Sea to Sky Hospice Society offers support and programs for anyone dealing with a life limiting illness, for their loved ones or for those who are grieving. You can browse their services and programs here, or reach out to them directly at…
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  • Final Gifts

    Understanding the Special Awareness, Needs, and Communications of the Dying

    Callanan, Maggie
    "In this moving and compassionate book, hospice nurses Maggie Callanan and Patricia Kelley share their intimate experiences with patients at the end of life, drawn from more then twenty years experience tending the terminally ill."
    Book, 2012New York ; Toronto : Simon & Schuster Paperbacks, 2012, c1992. — 155.937 CAL
  • The Blessing of Sorrow :

    Turning Grief Into Healing /

    Kamin, Ben,
    Topics here range from personal grief, incomplete grieving, and how to channel grief and move forward. These subjects are interspersed with the writers own experiences as a bereaved family member and as a pastoral counselor helping people with…
    Book, 2018Las Vegas : Central Recovery Press, 2018. — 296.76 KAM
  • How to Die

    a Book About Being Alive

    Robertson, Ray, 1966-
    An absorbing excursion through some of Western literature's most compelling works on the subject of death and a self-help book for people who hate self-help.
    Book, 2020Windsor, Ontario : Biblioasis, [2020] — 128.5 ROB
  • It's Ok That You're Not Ok

    Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand

    Devine, Megan,
    Megan writes with deep insight about the unspoken truths of loss, love, and healing. She debunks the culturally prescribed goal of returning to a normal "happy" life, replacing it with a far healthier middle path, one that invites us to build a life…
    Book, 2017Boulder, CO : Sounds True, 2017. — 155.93 DEV
  • Radical Acts of Love

    How We Find Hope at the End of Life

    Brown, Janie, (Nurse),
    In 'Radical Acts of Love', oncology nurse Janie Brown recounts 20 conversations she has had with the dying, including people close to her. Each conversation uncovers a different perspective on, and experience of death, while at the same time…
    Book, 2020[Toronto, Ontario] : Doubleday Canada, [2020] — 155.937 BRO
  • Help Me Live

    20 Things People With Cancer Want You to Know

    Hope, Lori
    If you are a caregiver, Help Me Live will help you communicate more effectively and respond more compassionately. And if you are a survivor, it will help you feel validated, empowered, and, ultimately, hopeful.
    Book, 2011Berkeley : Celestial Arts, 2011. — 616.994 HOP
  • The Aftergrief

    Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss

    Edelman, Hope,
    In The AfterGrief, Hope Edelman offers a new and reality-affirming paradigm: grief is not an emotion to pass through on the way to "feeling better," but a state that we repeatedly return to as we experience important life transitions and new crises.
    Book, 2020New York : Ballantine Books, 2020. — 155.937 EDE
  • Talking About Death Won't Kill You

    the Essential Guide to End-of-life Conversations

    Kortes-Miller, Kathy,
    "Our fear and societal avoidance of dying... have caused us to relinquish control and ownership of our dying. We lack the language and courage to have these important conversations with those we love," she writes. This useful handbook offers a road…
    Book, 2018Toronto, Ontario, Canada : ECW Press, [2018] — 155.937 KOR
  • For You When I Am Gone

    Twelve Essential Questions to Tell a Life Story

    Leder, Steven Z.,
    Writing an ethical will, a document that includes stories and reflections about your past, is an ancient tradition. It can include joy and regrets, and ultimately becomes both a way to remember a loved one who is gone and a primer on how to live a…
    Book, 2022New York : Avery, an imprint of Penguin Random House, [2022] — 155.937 LED
  • Saying Goodbye

    How Families Can Find Renewal Through Loss

    Okun, Barbara F.,
    Describes the complicated grieving process and prolonged emotional pain caused by today's advances in medicine that result in loved ones surviving for years or months after being diagnosed with a terminal illness and explores the five stages of…
    Book, 2011New York : Berkley Books, 2011. — 155.937 OKU
  • Holding Space

    on Loving, Dying, and Letting Go

    Glenn, Amy Wright,
    Trained as both a chaplain and a doula, Glenn explores how both roles have taught her to "hold space" by being present for the big events in people's lives. Holding space means to walk alongside others, especially in times of pain or difficulty; to…
    Book, 2017Berkeley, California : Parallax Press, 2017. — 202.3 GLE
  • This book is one of those travel guides—a guide to preparing for your own death and the deaths of people close to you. The fact of death is hard to believe. Sallie Tisdale explores our fears and all the ways death and talking about death make us…
    Book, 2018New York : Touchstone, 2018. — 306.9 TIS
  • Life Lessons

    Two Experts on Death and Dying Teach Us About the Mysteries of Life and Living

    Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth
    In Life Lessons, her first book on life and living, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross joins with David Kessler to guide readers through the practical and spiritual lessons we need to learn so that we can live life to its fullest in every moment. Many years of…
    Book, 2000New York : Scribner, c2000. — LP 170 KUB
  • Tuesdays With Morrie

    An Old Man, a Young Man, and Life's Greatest Lesson

    Albom, Mitch, 1958-
    “As long as we can love each other, and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without ever really going away. All the love you created is still there. All the memories are still there. You live on -- in the hearts of everyone you have…
    eBook, 1997New York : Anchor Books, c1997.
  • In the Slender Margin

    the Intimate Strangeness of Death and Dying

    Joseph, Eve, 1953-
    This is neither an academic text nor a self-help manual; rather, it is a foray into the land of death and dying as seen through the lens of art and the imagination.
    Book, 2015Toronto, Ontario : Patrick Crean Editions/HarperCollinsPublishersLtd., 2015. — 155.937 JOS
  • This book is Didion's attempt to make sense of the "weeks and then months that cut loose any fixed idea I ever had about death, about illness ... about marriage and children and memory ... about the shallowness of sanity, about life itself." From…
    Book, 2005New York : Alfred A. Knopf, 2005. — 813.54 DID
  • Giving Hope

    Conversations With Children About Illness, Death and Loss

    Lister, Elena,
    Giving Hope is a must-have resource that expands our understanding of how to prepare for, initiate, and facilitate these personal and profound conversations. The approach is honest, practical, and compassionate, and will benefit a grieving child…
    Book, 2022New York : Avery, an imprint of Penguin Random House, [2022] — 155.937 LIS
  • The Body Keeps the Score

    Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

    Van der Kolk, Bessel A., 1943-
    An expert on traumatic stress outlines an approach to healing, explaining how traumatic stress affects brain processes and how to use innovative treatments to reactivate the mind's abilities to trust, engage others, and experience pleasure.
    Book, 2014New York : Viking, 2014. — 616.85 VAN